How to Sell a House to a Family Member

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Selling a house to a family member is often faster and simpler than a traditional home sale since you won’t have to find a buyer. Plus, you don’t have to worry about showings, you get to keep your home in the family, and you can feel good knowing that you’ve helped out a relative financially.

However, selling your home to a family member comes with risks. Real estate sales are complicated transactions with the potential to cause heated disputes among family if not handled the right way.

Below, we’ll look at how selling to family member differs from a traditional home sale, key steps to follow, and tax considerations to keep in mind.

Selling a house to a family member vs. selling the traditional way

Most real estate sales are arm’s length transactions, meaning the buyer and selling have no relationship with one another. 

In contrast, selling a house to a family member is a non-arm’s-length transaction (also known as an arm-in-arm or controlled transaction), meaning you have a pre-existing relationship with the buyer.

Knowing your home buyer ahead of time confers distinct benefits — and potential risks.

  • Lower selling costs. With a buyer already in place, you can avoid spending money on photography, staging, curb appeal, and other enhancements to make your home “show ready.” And since you won't need a realtor to list and market your home, you can save on realtor fees or avoid hiring a realtor altogether. 
  • Ability to set your own purchase terms. With affordability becoming a greater issue for many first-time home buyers, selling to a family member gives you the flexibility to lower your sale price or offer a more favorable interest rate than they might find with a conventional mortgage lender.
  • Greater tax implications for you and the buyer. If you cut your family member a deal, you may owe gift taxes. Your relatives could also be on the hook for higher capital gains taxes when they decide to sell. 
  • More scrutiny from the IRS. The IRS sees a greater risk of fraud in controlled transactions, since some people may attempt to avoid taxes by selling their homes to a relative at a loss. Therefore you may suffer more IRS scrutiny come tax season.
  • Potential strain on relationships. Legal and interpersonal disputes are another risk when selling your house to a relative. For example, the buyer may want to get more of a “deal” on the property than you’re willing to provide. Or you and the buyer may disagree on who should be responsible for repairs before the property changes hands. 

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How to sell a house to a family member

Selling your house to a family member is often faster and simpler than a traditional home sale. However, even when it's to family, selling a house is a complex transaction that carries risks for both sides.

"It’s all about balancing personal relationships with legal, financial, and tax considerations, "says Eric Bramlett, realtor and owner of Bramlett Real Estate in Austin, TX. "To keep things fair and avoid future misunderstandings", says Bramlett, "it’s essential to treat the sale like any other.”

Step 1: Agree on the process

The first step is for you and your family member to agree on how the home sale will proceed. 

For example, will you hire a realtor to help with the sale, work with an attorney, or manage the process on your own?

If you’re both in complete agreement about the sale price and who is responsible for what, a realtor may not be necessary. 

However, a real estate agent can help with things like:

  • Determining your home's fair market value
  • Drawing up the sales contract
  • Acting as a liaison when questions or concerns arise
  • Recommending other professionals, like appraisers, attorneys, lenders, title companies, and inspectors
  • Coordinating with the various parties to keep the closing timeline on track

Selling a house to a family member without a realtor

While some people find a realtor helpful, many people who sell a house to a relative opt to do so without a realtor

The advantage of not using a realtor is that you’ll save money, since a realtor usually charges around 2.5–3% commission. 

However, many realtors are willing to negotiate lower fees for handling only certain aspects of a home sale. And several discount brokers offer built-in savings for home sellers.

Even if you choose not to hire a real estate agent, you may need to bring other professionals on board. "At the very least, you'll want to hire an attorney," says Vancouver real estate agent Adam Chahl. "Even though it's a family member, having professionals involved ensures all legal aspects are covered and helps prevent misunderstandings later.”

Step 2: Agree on a price

When selling a house to a family member, the simplest route is to sell for fair market value, since doing so won’t trigger a gift tax on your part or increase your family member's capital gains tax if they decide to sell the property later on. 

Even if you've already agreed on a sale price, it's still a good idea to document your home's fair market value to avoid future disputes over its worth. 

“I’ve seen situations where skipping this step caused disagreements, even with the best intentions," cautions Ryan Fitzgerald, realtor and owner of Raleigh Realty.

Documenting your home's market value can also help you avoid tax troubles further down the road.

🤔 How to determine fair market value

The IRS defines fair market value as "the price at which a property would change hands between a willing buyer and a willing seller, neither being under any compulsion to buy or to sell and both having reasonable knowledge of relevant facts."

A real estate agent can help determine market value by performing a comparative market analysis (CMA), which examines comparable properties that have sold recently in the same neighborhood. An appraisal can also determine what a home is worth. These documents can show market value if the IRS audits the transaction.

Selling a house to a family member below market value

While it may not be in your own self interest financially, you’re free to sell your home to a family member for below fair market value. For example, you may do this in order to help your child buy their first property in a market that is otherwise too expensive for them. However, be aware that selling at below market value brings with it some important considerations.

The most important consideration is gift taxes. If you’re selling for less than market rate, then any equity you've accrued above the sale price may be considered a gift of equity by the IRS, and therefore be subject to a gift tax.

Also consider that your family member may be subject to capital gains taxes should they decide to sell in the future.

To help avoid problems with the IRS and the buyer’s mortgage lender, you should write a gift letter. A gift letter states that you are gifting the equity to your family member and you do not expect to be paid back. It should also include:

  • The value of the gift
  • Your name and address
  • Your relationship with the recipient
  • The date of the sale
  • The property address
  • Both of your signatures

Finally, when filing the deed with the county recorder’s office, list it as a family sale. Doing so helps prevent distortion in the local real estate market since appraisers and realtors base their valuations on how much similar nearby homes have sold for.

Step 3: Determine finances

Unless you’re gifting your entire house, the buyer will need to come up with the funds to pay for the transaction. This can involve a variety of options, such as: 

  • Getting a conventional loan from a mortgage lender
  • Making payments directly to you, through an arrangement called seller financing
  • Seeing if the original mortgage will transfer, if you still owe money on the house

Conventional loan

A conventional loan, such as a fixed-rate mortgage from a bank, is one of the most common ways to fund a house purchase. It’s typically a good option for buyers who don’t have enough cash on hand to purchase the home outright.

The downside of conventional loans is that not everyone qualifies. To get the best interest rates, buyers need a good credit rating. A downpayment is also usually required and if the buyer can’t provide a downpayment of at least 20% they’ll be required to pay for private mortgage insurance (PMI), which is usually around 1%.

To get a conventional loan, the buyer will need to apply directly through a lender. Some lenders have more stringent rules for providing a mortgage in a non-arm's-length transaction. As stated, there is a higher potential for fraud in these types of real estate transactions, so lenders may demand additional paperwork to make sure everything is above board, such as appraisals and “gift of equity” paperwork.

Seller financing

Seller financing bypasses a traditional mortgage and instead allows the buyer to pay off a house in installments paid directly to the seller. To execute this type of agreement, the seller and buyer sign a promissory note outlining the conditions, including the down payment amount, payment schedule, interest, and loan term (10 years, 15 years, etc.).

Seller financing is a good option for buyers who can’t qualify for a conventional mortgage. For example, the buyer may have a poor credit rating or may simply not have much of a credit history at all. It can also be helpful during times when prevailing interest rates are high, since the buyer and seller can set their own interest rate.

However, seller financing can be risky for the seller. Because the loan is between family members, some buyers may feel there are fewer consequences with missing a payment than if the loan was with a bank. This can put you in the uncomfortable position of having to enforce the terms of the loan with your family member, which can lead to disputes.

“Owner financing offers flexibility that banks won’t. I’ve seen it speed up deals and lower the financial burden with custom interest rates," says Fitzgerald. "But it’s not without risks—defaults happen, and foreclosing on a family member is a situation nobody wants to face.”

Mortgage transfer

You may be able to transfer your mortgage to the buyer. A mortgage transfer can keep mortgage costs down and it means the buyer won’t have to come up with a down payment.

However, you’ll need to verify with your lender that your mortgage is “assumable,” meaning it can be transferred to another person. Unfortunately, most conventional loans include a “due-on-sale” clause that prevents them from being transferred to another person. Government-backed loans, such as VA, FHA, and USDA loans are more likely to be assumable.

Even if your mortgage is assumable, there’s no guarantee that the buyer will be approved. You’ll need to talk to your lender about transferring your mortgage and the lender will then check to make sure the new borrower meets their credit requirements.

Step 4: Sign a purchase agreement

Even when selling to a family member, it’s important to have the purchase agreement in writing. A purchase agreement helps make sure all the terms of the sale are clear to both parties, which can help avoid disputes from arising later.

“When selling a house to a family member, handle it just like any other sale, even if it feels more personal," says Oliver Morrisey, Estate Lawyer, Owner, and Director of Empower Wills & Estate Lawyers. "You need a proper written agreement such as a contract that clearly spells out the price, terms, and any conditions."

The purchase agreement should also include the names and addresses of the buyer and seller, a description of the property, the closing date, and when the buyer will take possession.

"Even when trust is strong, having everything written down can prevent misunderstandings later, which usually pop up when you least expect them,” says Morrisey.

For greater peace of mind, you may want to hire a real estate agent or attorney to help draft your purchase agreement. You can hire a low commission real estate brokerage so that you’re not paying full price or simply negotiate a rate with a realtor based on how much work you need.

Step 5: Complete due diligence

Completing due diligence is important even when selling to a family member. As Morrisey says, “Don’t skip the usual due diligence steps like a title search. This will ensure there aren’t any hidden claims or disputes on the property that could cause issues down the road. Even if you’re selling to a family member, it’s better to sort out any potential problems before they become legal headaches.”

A title search uncovers any liens or ownership disputes. A lien is placed on a home when someone the owner owes money to claims a legal right to the property as a form of collateral. Liens may be granted for unpaid contract work, back taxes, or overdue utility bills. A title search can be done on your own, but it’s more common to have a title company or a real estate lawyer do it for you.

A home inspection is also a good idea. While it can be tempting to skip an inspection when selling to a family member, doing so is risky. An inspection can uncover issues that neither you nor the buyer are aware of. It’s better to know of these issues before the sale in order to avoid upsetting your buyer later on.

Step 6: Close the sale

Choose the right deed

Different deeds offer different levels of protection. If you’re using an agent, they’ll take care of this for you. If you’re selling FSBO, you’ll need to choose the type of deed yourself.

The most common type of deed is a general warranty deed because it’s the most secure. With a general warranty deed, the seller pledges that no one else has a stake in the property, and it is free of any outstanding liens. A general warranty deed is complicated to draft. If you don’t have an agent, you’ll likely need to hire an attorney.

Sellers can use a gift deed to transfer the title to a family member when no payment is exchanged for the property. The document must simply be signed and witnessed by two disinterested parties.

How to transfer a property title

Transferring a title involves a few simple steps. Keep in mind that a title company will perform most of these steps if you choose to hire one.

  1. Obtain the most recent deed from the county clerk’s office. You’ll need information, such as the legal description of the property, from that deed to create a new one.
  2. Draft a new deed that transfers ownership to the buyer. You can write it yourself or hire an attorney to do it for you.
  3. Sign the deed in the presence of a notary. You can find a notary at a local library, UPS Store, bank, college, or accountant’s office.
  4. Mail or hand deliver the deed to the recipient. The recipient may also need to sign the document.
  5. File the deed with the county clerk’s office. This is usually the recipient’s responsibility, but you should obtain a copy of the newly recorded deed.

Finish up remaining paperwork

You and the buyer will need to finish up any remaining paperwork. If the buyer is taking out a mortgage, there will typically be more paperwork involved. During the closing process, the following documents are often necessary:

  • Closing disclosure
  • Proof of homeowners insurance
  • Mortgage application
  • Deed of trust
  • Copy of purchase agreement

If you're not already working with a realtor, you and the buyer may want to consider working with a real estate attorney during the closing process to ensure all of the paperwork is in order.

Closing day

Closing day itself is when the funds for the purchase will be transferred to you and any loose ends will be tied up. Funds are typically held in an escrow account managed by a title company. Once closing is finished, the mortgage provider will release the funds to you minus any closing costs.

Other steps you’ll want to take on or leading up to closing day are:

  • Clean your home
  • Hand over the house keys
  • Pay final utility bills
  • Change your mailing address
  • Cancel utilities and insurance
  • Hand over documents for appliances or major home renovations
  • Hire movers/moving vehicles
  • Shut off the main water valve (if necessary)

Tax implications of selling a house to a family member

Both you and your family member that you’re selling to should be aware of possible tax implications, which may include both gift taxes and capital gains.

Just be advised that this post doesn’t constitute as legal or financial advice. For that, we recommend talking to a professional, such as a real estate agent or an attorney.

Gift taxes

The IRS gift tax is a levy on the transfer of money or property from one person to another for less than full value. In 2024, you can give up to $18,000 per recipient per person (or up to $36,000 as a married couple) during the year without paying the gift tax.

Gifts of more than $18,000 are taxed at a rate of 18–40% depending on how much over the limit you give. The donor is responsible for paying taxes associated with the gift.

However, there is a lifetime gift tax exclusion of $13.61 million as of 2024. This means that if you exceed your annual gift tax limit you need to report that to the IRS via a Form 709. Then the excess amount will be deducted from your lifetime exclusion. So long as you don’t exceed your lifetime exclusion, you may not have to pay any gift tax even if you’re above your annual limit.

Note that in 2026 the lifetime exclusion will be reverting to its pre-2018 level of approximately $5 million.

Capital gains taxes

Capital gains tax is the tax you pay on the profit (i.e., the capital gains) that you make on the sale of a property. For example, if you bought a house for $300,000 and then sold it for $400,000, your capital gains would be $100,000.

The good news is that the first $250,000 of capital gains you make when selling your home is exempt from the capital gains tax so long as you’ve owned the home for two of the last five years. This exemption rises to $500,000 for married couples filing jointly.

The rate of capital gains tax depends first on how long the property has been owned. For homes owned for less than a year, capital gains tax is charged at the same rate as your income tax. For homes held for more than a year, the rate ranges from 0–20% depending on income, although most sellers pay 15%.

For example, let’s say you bought a house in the 1990s for $125,000 and sold it to your child today for $500,000. You’ve made a capital gain of $375,000. Assuming you’re single, $250,000 of that profit is excluded from capital gains tax, so you only have to pay tax on the remaining $125,000. So long as your taxable income is between $44,625 and $492,300, you’ll pay 15% capital gains tax on that $125,000.

Taxes implications for the buyer

If your family member pays fair market value for your home, then their capital gains tax will be based on any added value that they earn when they resell it at a later date.

However, if you gift your home to a family member, then that family member assumes the original tax basis of the home (i.e., how much the home was worth when you originally purchased it). This can result in a much higher capital gains tax bill for your relative later on than if they had paid for the house.

For example, let’s say:

  • You bought for $125,000 in the 1990s and decide to gift it to your child in its entirety.
  • After living in the house for 2 years, your child decides to sell the for its fair market value of $600,000.
  • Assuming your child is single and qualifies for a $250,000 exemption, they’ll have to pay capital gains taxon the remaining $225,000 — that's $600,000, minus their exemption and the original purchase price of $125,000.

One way to minimize your relative's future capital gains tax is to let your family member inherit the home by leaving it in your will.

An inherited property is taxed on a “stepped-up basis,” meaning that the gain is calculated using the fair market value at the time of the original owner’s death – not the original purchase date. 

In other words, if the home was worth $600,000 when the owner died, that’s what the IRS says it was worth when you first acquired it – even if the original owner paid only $125,000 for the home. 

FAQ

Can I sell my house to a family member for $1?

You can sell your home at any price below market value, even $1. But the IRS may consider it a gift, and you might be required to pay gift taxes or else put it toward your lifetime exemption. If youre selling your home to a family member at a discount price, youll also want to consider your relatives capital gains tax liability.

Can I give my house to my children?

Yes. If you own your home free and clear, you can give your house to anyone you want. No money needs to change hands. However, if you make a gift over the annual limit of $18,000, the IRS will levy a gift tax on the donor.

How can I avoid trouble with the IRS when selling my home to a family member?

The easiest way to bypass problems with the IRS is to agree on a price that is close to fair market value. A real estate agent can help you determine your home's fair market value by performing a CMA, which examines comparable properties that have sold recently in the same neighborhood.

Will I pay taxes if I sell my house to a family member at fair market value?

When you sell an asset like your house, you may need to pay capital gains taxes on your profit. Most home sellers don't need to pay capital gains taxes because the first $250,000 of profit for individuals is tax free if you've lived in your home for more than two years ($500,000 for married couples).

Will my children pay capital gains tax if I give them my house?

It's possible. When you gift your home, your tax basis the initial cost of the property becomes the recipient's tax basis. If you bought your home for cheap, gave it to a family member, and the value of the home increased by more than $250,000, they'd have to pay capital gains tax based on the initial purchase price.

What is the cheapest way to sell a house to a family member?

Since selling to a family member is often simpler than trying to find a buyer, you can usually save on real estate commission. Consider working with a low commission real estate company or negotiating a reduced rate with an agent or lawyer in exchange for help with negotiations, paperwork, and closing. For tax reasons, its also usually better for a family member to pay at least some money for your house.

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How to Sell Your Home | The Ultimate Guide: Check out our guide to selling a house in 12 steps. We spoke to the experts to learn the best way to sell your home (with or without a realtor).

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